لا أحب أطفالي ..هل الأمومة تنتهي . ؟
يعتبر هذا العنوان مفاجئ للبعض أو يؤلم البعض . لبعض الذكريات التي يصاحبها أو المشاهدات التي نراها في هذه الأوقات، إذن ماهو الحل أنترك ما نتألم منه .
هنا قرارات أن اثبر هذا الموضوع هنا في مدونتي مدينتي ضرماء .ليرى الآخرون ما يفعلونه وما يراه الآخرون من هذه المواقف وما دعاني على هذا .هو قصة احد المعلمات وهي تفتخر بأنها قامت يأخذا حق أخت زوجها وانتقمت من أهل الزوج والزوج بمساعدتها على إلقاء أطفاله في الطريق أمام الجيران .والهروب في صورة يقشعر لها الجسد طفل لم يتجاوز 4 سنوات يجري خلف السيارة وهو يبكي ويصيح ماما . وطفل يكبره بقليل يصرخ لأخيه الآخر وهو يقف أمام منزل أهل والدة ويقول له ببراءة الأطفال( تعال لا يسرقك ) ألحرامي .ويفتح الباب ويخرج الجميع في ذهول يجرون خلف ذلك الطفل وكان رد أهل المعلمة وزوجة على تصرف ابنتهم وتلك المعلمة أنهم نساء وهذه تصرفات النساء ولا يعلمون بهم وحرام الأولاد مالهم ذنب يعيشون بعيد عن والديهم أما ألمعلمه فكانت تفتخر بهذا الانجاز الذي حققته .وتخيلوا الصورة وستنجو ماهي نفسية الأطفال أكبرهم 7 سنوات وأصغرهم 2 سنتين فلم يستطيعوا تخيل ذلك .اصبحو ينامون في حضن والدهم ولا يسمحون له بان يغادرهم مهما كانت الأسباب، وكان الرعب يلازمهم . هنا وجدتني اكتب هذا الموضوع . والذي طرحته على هذا الشكل واستأنست برأي أمهات فاضلات كلن أجاب حسب ما يراه واعرف بان هناك آراء أخرى قد تطرح أو قد تدور في داخل كياناتنا النفسية .وأترككم مع السوأل ومع من استطلعت أرائهم من الأمهات الفاضلات . ولعلي هنا أكون لفت الأنظار على الكثير من القضايا التي تعتبر هضم لحقوق الطفل وصورة واضحة لبعض تفكير وسلوك من ينتمي للكادر التعليمي في وزارة التربية والتعليم في المملكة العربية السعودية ( التي تعتمد على الكم وليس على الكيف في اغلب عملها والمزاجية في إعداد الجيل القادم .وناقشة هنا ألام لأنها هي من تعد الجيل ليكون عضو فعال في مجتمعه وهي من تبني مجتمع قوي أو مجتمع ضعيف الكل يسيطر عليه ..
أريد أن اسأل ؟
هو ماهي العلاقة بين الأم والأطفال وهل تنتهي أم أنها تضل مستمرة حتى وان عصفت بها أي ظروف .إذا كانت هناك أجابه إما بإرشادي لمصادر أجد فيها مبتغاي أو أن تجيبيني من وجهت نظرك لاستأنس برأيك حيث إننا نرى الكثير من القصص بين الأمهات والأبناء إما بتخلي الأم عنهم أو تنشاء عداوة بينهم؟ لا اعرف لأنه إحساس وشعور داخل الأنثى وأحببت أن اعرف هل ممكن أن تنتهي .أي ينتهي الإحساس بها وشعور أم لا؟؟
هذا هو سؤالي وهذه هي إجابات البعض التي وردتني .وانتظر إجابات من يتيح له القدر أن يطلع على سؤالي من الأصدقاء أو من تلوح الفرصة أن يزور متصفحي . أن تؤنسوني بآرائكم .؟؟
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-- سؤال غريب ما عارفة إجابة -- الأمومة من خلق الله و بس كيف تنتهي؟ لا تنتهي الأمومة
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ترجع لكيف تربة (الأم) الأمهات بشر بمعنى إن كانت الأم تربت على الحنو والطيبة مهما كان ظروف الأبناء بينهما فلن تتغير تجاه أبنائها
مهما كان ظروف الأبناء بينهما ،ولكن هناك أم غبية تظن أنها بإهمالها فهي تنتقم من الأب
بدليل أن هناك من تحمل سفاحا وتلقى بوليدها وان هناك من تلقى بأولادها وتتزوج
وعندي امرأة لم تر أولادها منذ 18 سنه اعتقادا منها أنها تنتقم من الأب
فكان رد فعل احد أولاده انه نشر بين أصحابه أن أمه ماتت،
فكرتي أنني أصنف الإنسان حسب ما تربي
لا تنس أنا معلمة، واعرف امرأة أخرى فعلت الأفاعيل الغريبة لكي ينجح أبناؤها ولكن المشكلة أنها تصورت أنهم ملك خاص لهم؟
فأصبحوا مبرمجين كالكمبيوتر على أوامر الأم وان كان فيه جور وهكذا
في بعض الأحيان،
وهنا لا تكون الأمومة موجودة بل أن العلاقة تكون مثل البشر العايدين لا تحكمهم غير التعامل المهذب فقط وهذا ممكن ولكنها حالات نادرة جدا.
عارف لأنه لا يوجد ارتباط فعلى بينهما هنا في هذه البلد هكذا عارف من كم يوم
كانت زميلة لينا تحكي أن امرأة من هنا ماتت وباتت على فراشها يوم ونص .ميتة وأولادها لم يسألوا عنها وكانوا يعيشون معها في المنزل واحد،
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لحظة السؤال ده إجابته كثيرة و له عدت إجابة لو تحب النقاش فيها أنا ممكن أنا قشك يعني بي ما اعنيه له عدت جوانب أي إنسان في هذي الدنيا يتعلق بالأخر على حسب التعامل معه
والمعاملة هي المشاعر والأحاسيس التي تحدد طبيعة العلاقة بين البشرية..
اممممممم
شوف يا سيدي
طبيعة البشرية سوء أن كان إنسان أو حيوان كليهما عنده أحاسيس و مشاعر يعني بي ما معناه
لو عطفت على طفل بلا حساس والمشاعر يحس بك ويحبك و لو كشرت بوجهه و تصرفت معك بكره راح يبتعد عنك و يتجنبك فما بالك من الأم التي حملت الطفل بين أحشاءها و و أنجبته و أرضعته و سهرت الليالي على راحت طفلها مهما كانت الأم قاسية لا تتخلى عن طفلها أو تكره أولادها .أقصد ممكن تغضب وتبتعد إنما لا تكره الحياة هي مواقف . وتصرفاتنا تختلف من واحد إلى الآخر .. والأمومة لا تنتهي إنما ممكن يصبح فيها خمول أي جفاء شوي ..بس مثل ما قلت لك حسب تصرف الإنسان، الأطفال شئ ولما يكبروا شيء آخر ثق تمامآ الأم لا تنتهي إذا كانت في وعيها التام . إنما أحيانا تمر ظروف قاسيه بل أم وتتغير تصرفاتها اتجاه أولادها
هـ شيء يعني أنها مريضة هي الحياة و ظروفها . بس هذا أشيء لا يعني أنها تكره أولادها . لا اقصد بان عبارة أن الأمومة قد تنتهي .(لا) لا تنتهي بل تتغيب مراحل متفاوتة ممكن تموت بموت (الأم ) وهي لا تنتهي على الإطلاق .بل تتغيب مراحل متفاوتة .ممكن تعود وممكن تموت بموت (الأم ). قد تجف والجفاف هنا لا يعني الموت. وهناك من قال أن الأمومة قد تنتهي ولا يحكمها غير حسن المعاملة فقط لا كما قلت هي تتغيب مراحل متفاوتة مثل أي واحد فاقد للوعي . هذا رأيي.
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لا تنتهي علاقة الأم بأبنائها مهما عصفت بهم أي عواصف اجتماعيه أو نفسيه
قد تحصل أي بين الأم وأبنائها بعض الاحتكاكات ولكنها لا ترضى عليهم أي سوء أو أي أمر يسبب ضرر لهم هذا حسب نظري كأم ولك أن تستشير أهل العلم والدراية بهذه الأمور. وقد سالت آخرين وقد أجابوني أستاذي بنفس الإجابة لا يمكن أن تتخلى الأم عن دورها كأم ألا أن تكون مريضه أو تعاني من امرأ ما.
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وفي ختام أطروحتي هذه ارجوا أن أكون قد أوضحت فكرتي حول ما يواجه الأسرة وما يحيط بها .و اختلاف رؤيتنا لكثير من القضايا التي تتعلق بتكوين الإنساني وتطوير المكاني الذي يبني على النوع التثقيفي للمكون الاجتماعي الذي يحتل تلك المساحة المكانية .. .بن حسين التمتام .
. I do not like my children. Is motherhood an end?
This is the address of a sudden some or hurts another. Some of the memories that accompanied or observations that we see in these times, then what is the solution Onterc what pained him.
Here the decisions that Athber this subject here in my cities Dharme. To see the others what they do and what others see of these positions, and invited me to this. Is the story of one of the parameters which boasts that it has take into the right of her sister and took revenge on the husband's family and husband by helping them to take his children on the way front of the neighbors. and escape in the form of her body, despicable child did not exceed 4 years being behind the car, crying and shouting Mama. And a child, his senior just screaming for his brother the other, standing in front of the family home of the mother and say to him, innocent as a child (Come on do not rob you) thief. And opens the door and leave everyone in shock dragging behind the child and the response of the people of the teacher and wife to the behavior of their daughter and that parameter they are women and the actions of women do not know them and haram boys their money guilt of living away from their parents, the teacher was proud of that accomplishment achieved. Imagine the image and will survive What are the psychological children the eldest 7 years and the youngest 2 years they could not imagine. Asubho sleep in the bosom of their father and do not allow him to Agaderhm Whatever the reason, and was Alazmanm horror. I found myself here and type this topic. And put forward on this form and domesticated view of virtuous mothers answered Klan according to him and I know that there are other views that might be raised or may revolve in our entities within the psychological. And leave you with question No. of respondents with the mothers of our respected. Let me here, I draw attention to a lot of issues that are digestible for children's rights and a clear picture of some of the thinking and behavior of a member of staff education in the Ministry of Education in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia (which depends on the quantity and not quality in most of the work and the mood in the preparation of the next generation. And discussed here pain because it is the generation of the is to be an active member of his community from the adoption of a strong community or a society dominated by a weak total ..
I want to ask?
Is what the relationship between the mother and children and whether end or is it lost its continuing, even if hit by any circumstances. If there is an answer either can tell me the sources I find where my ultimate goal or Tgippini of been your opinion of domesticated think as we see a lot of stories between mothers and children either abandoned by the mother for them Tnchae or enmity between them? I do not know that sense of feeling within the female and I wanted to know if possible to an end.
No end of feeling and a sense or not??
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- What a strange question Arefh answer - Motherhood of God's creation and how it ends Avatar? Does not end with motherhood
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How was attributed to the soil (the mother) in the sense that human beings mothers mother was raised on the compassion and kindness no matter what the circumstances of their children will not be changed towards her children
Whatever the circumstances of their children, but there are stupid or you think they are neglecting revenge of the father
There is evidence that the carrying of a serial killer and had Pulidha and there received from her children and married
Woman and I have not seen her children since 18 years in the belief that they are retaliating against the father
Was the reaction of one of his children that he published between his friends that his mother died.
My idea that I classify as human breeding
Do not forget I am a teacher, and I know another woman who did Alavail alien to succeed her children, but the problem they thought they were private property to them?
Kalkmpiotr programmers who now commands the mother and that it was Gore, and so
In some cases,
Here, a mother can be found but that the relationship be like humans Alaidan is governed not only dealing polite and this is possible but very rare cases.
Aref, because there is no link between the two For here in this country so how many days of Aref
Lena was a classmate tells that the woman died here and is on her bed on text. Dead and her children did not ask them and they were living at home with one,
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The moment of de answer many question and has promised to answer if you like the debate in which I can Akeck I mean me what I mean is promised aspects of any human being in the delirious world on the other dealt with by
And treatment are the feelings and emotions that determine the nature of the relationship between humanity ..
Ammmmmmm
Shoof Sir
Poor human nature that was both a human or an animal has feelings and my feelings mean something to the effect
If Ataft a child without a sensitive and feelings felt and your loves and had bared his face and acted with you Hate claimed away from you and Etjnbug let alone a mother who carried the child between the internal organs and and brought into existence and breastfed him and stayed up nights on began her child no matter what the mother harsh do not give up her or hate her. I mean, get angry and move away as possible but do not hate life are the positions. And actions vary from one to the other .. And motherhood do not end it becomes possible idle any staleness Shui .. just like what I said to you depending on the disposal of rights, children grow up to something and something else not fully trust the mother does not end if they are in full consciousness. But sometimes going through tough circumstances, but a mother and her actions changed the direction of her children
E something means that they are sick of life and circumstances. Avatar none of this does not mean they hate children. I do not mean that the statement that motherhood may end. (Not) does not end, but absent at various stages as possible die the death of (the mother), which does not end at all. But absent at various stages. Possible die back and possible death (the mother). May dry and drought here does not mean death. There are those who said that motherhood could end is not governed by the good treatment as I just do not miss is the varying stages and like any one unconscious. This is my opinion.
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Does not end an important relationship between mother and sons storms hit them any social or psychological
You may get any of the mother and her children some friction, but they do not like any bad or anything causing harm to them this by my mother and you can consult the people of knowledge and know-how to these things. I asked my teacher Ojabona others have the same answer can not abandon the mother for her role as a mother not to be sick or suffering from something.
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- What a strange question Arefh answer - Motherhood of God's creation and how it ends Avatar? Does not end with motherhood
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How was attributed to the soil (the mother) in the sense that human beings mothers mother was raised on the compassion and kindness no matter what the circumstances of their children will not be changed towards her children
Whatever the circumstances of their children, but there are stupid or you think they are neglecting revenge of the father
There is evidence that the carrying of a serial killer and had Pulidha and there received from her children and married
Woman and I have not seen her children since 18 years in the belief that they are retaliating against the father
Was the reaction of one of his children that he published between his friends that his mother died.
My idea that I classify as human breeding
Do not forget I am a teacher, and I know another woman who did Alavail alien to succeed her children, but the problem they thought they were private property to them?
Kalkmpiotr programmers who now commands the mother and that it was Gore, and so
In some cases,
Here, a mother can be found but that the relationship be like humans Alaidan is governed not only dealing polite and this is possible but very rare cases.
Aref, because there is no link between the two For here in this country so how many days of Aref
Lena was a classmate tells that the woman died here and is on her bed on text. Dead and her children did not ask them and they were living at home with one,
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The moment of de answer many question and has promised to answer if you like the debate in which I can Akeck I mean me what I mean is promised aspects of any human being in the delirious world on the other dealt with by
And treatment are the feelings and emotions that determine the nature of the relationship between humanity ..
Ammmmmmm
Shoof Sir
Poor human nature that was both a human or an animal has feelings and my feelings mean something to the effect
If Ataft a child without a sensitive and feelings felt and your loves and had bared his face and acted with you Hate claimed away from you and Etjnbug let alone a mother who carried the child between the internal organs and and brought into existence and breastfed him and stayed up nights on began her child no matter what the mother harsh do not give up her or hate her. I mean, get angry and move away as possible but do not hate life are the positions. And actions vary from one to the other .. And motherhood do not end it becomes possible idle any staleness Shui .. just like what I said to you depending on the disposal of rights, children grow up to something and something else not fully trust the mother does not end if they are in full consciousness. But sometimes going through tough circumstances, but a mother and her actions changed the direction of her children
E something means that they are sick of life and circumstances. Avatar none of this does not mean they hate children. I do not mean that the statement that motherhood may end. (Not) does not end, but absent at various stages as possible die the death of (the mother), which does not end at all. But absent at various stages. Possible die back and possible death (the mother). May dry and drought here does not mean death. There are those who said that motherhood could end is not governed by the good treatment as I just do not miss is the varying stages and like any one unconscious. This is my opinion.
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Does not end an important relationship between mother and sons storms hit them any social or psychological
You may get any of the mother and her children some friction, but they do not like any bad or anything causing harm to them this by my mother and you can consult the people of knowledge and know-how to these things. I asked my teacher Ojabona others have the same answer can not abandon the mother for her role as a mother not to be sick or suffering from something.
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At the conclusion of this thesis I hope that I have explained my idea on the face of the family and the surroundings. And different vision of many of the issues relating to the composition of human and spatial development, which builds on the type of educational component, which occupies the social space spatial ..
At the conclusion of this thesis I hope that I have explained my idea on the face of the family and the surroundings. And different vision of many of the issues relating to the composition of human and spatial development, which builds on the type of educational component, which occupies the social space spatial ..
. Altmtam bin Hussein.
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